December 4, 1950 – June 12, 2025
Lt. Col. (Ret) Wayne J. Sabo, born December 4, 1950, passed away peacefully on June 12, 2025, at the age of 74 after bravely battling pancreatic cancer. He is survived by his beloved wife, Morag B. Sabo; his daughter, Deirdre R. Sabo, and her husband, Jacob N. Frary; his cherished granddaughter, Sandra R. Malburg; his brother, Grant Sabo, and his wife, Linda Sabo; and nephews Grant and Kevin Sabo. Wayne had a special bond with his two grandsons, Chance and Caleb Frary, whom he fully accepted into the family, along with his stepsons, Craig and Malcom Jeffrey, and their many children living in England. He was preceded in death by his parents, Julius and Irma Sabo, and his late wife, Sandra B. Sabo, the mother of his daughter, Deirdre.
A distinguished Army veteran and dedicated public servant, Wayne served as the City Manager of Webster from 2008 until his retirement in 2019. His legacy of service began with a commendable military career, where he held the esteemed position of Commander of the 3rd U.S. Infantry Regiment—The Old Guard—and proudly served as Escort to President Ronald Reagan. After retiring as a Lieutenant Colonel, he committed himself to local government, leading Webster and other surrounding cities through a transformative period marked by growth and achievement.
Wayne had a zest for life that extended beyond his exemplary career. Known affectionately as "Dr. Dolittle" for his love of animals, he welcomed diverse creatures to his ranch, the Crossed Rifles Ranch. He was also the self-proclaimed "Christmas Light King," transforming his home into a dazzling winter wonderland each holiday season, ensuring that no spot was left untouched by his festive spirit. A passionate horse lover, Wayne found joy in sharing his daughter’s enthusiasm for Dressage, having forged his own path within the hunter/jumper circuit. He was the ultimate horse show dad, always supporting his daughter and reveling in their shared love of horses.
Later in life, Wayne met Morag, and together they became an unstoppable team, working in perfect harmony every day. Their bond was unmistakable; they were undeniably kindred spirits who took immense joy in their combined families and the numerous animals they welcomed into their home over the years. Through Wayne's role at the City of Webster, they fostered many friendships, and their lively gatherings became legendary in their social circle. They threw “epic” parties, creating cherished memories filled with laughter and love that reflected the warmth of their partnership. They enjoyed their roles in the Highland Bears in the Silver Streaks bowling league.
Wayne's dedication to his community and his family was unwavering. His remarkable leadership, warmth, and compassion left a lasting mark on the lives of those who knew him. He will be deeply missed, yet his legacy of service, love, and laughter will live on in the hearts of family, friends, and the community he served so faithfully.
Friends are cordially invited to the visitation with the family on Thursday, July 10, 2025 at 11:00 A.M. with memorial service to follow at 12:00 P.M. at Jeter Memorial Funeral Home in Friendswood, TX,
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to St. Jude’s in Wayne's honor. Please follow this link to make your donations:
13 thoughts on “Lt. Col. (Ret) Wayne Jay Sabo”
On behalf of the men and women of the Webster Police Department, I extend our deepest sympathies to Morag and the entire Sabo Family. Wayne was a great man in every way. He was a dedicated family man, a patriotic American and soldier, and a rock steady leader as City Manager. Many of us learned a great deal from Wayne and we are privileged to have known him and worked for him. Wayne Sabo was genuine and authentic; he represented the very best of what it means to be a great man and a great American. He will be missed.
Respectfully,
Peter T. Bacon, Chief of Police
Webster Police Department
I had the honor of working with Wayne at the City of Webster as the HR Director of Human Resources. Wayne always had my back which meant so much to me. Besides his work ethic, you knew how much he loved his wife, daughter and grandchildren. I’ll miss you Wayne but will never forget your leadership and kindness.. Go rest high upon that mountain. You made a difference in my life.
Wayne was such a kind soul. My late husband Ray always said he was a true friend. We all had many laughs over the years and fun parties. Wayne will not be forgotten. Mo and his family were everything to him.
He was there for me when Ray passed away. Meant a lot to me. I’m sure he and Ray are having fun catching up in Heaven.
Love you Mo and I am so sorry. So not fair. Big hug.
Love,
Elaine Smiley Comarda
Dear Mo and Family,
I am saddened to read about Wayne's "Homegoing" but rejoice that he had Jesus and is now with Him! I loved reconnecting with him and I was proud to call him "Friend, Spencer Pal and Fellow Austin Tiger Brother!" I am so proud of his Military Career and all he did for our Country through the United States Army! Hooah! I've told family, friends and our JROTC Command Sergeant Major (Lifer) at the High School I retired from. I even showed pictures of him from Austin ROTC and when he was walking with President Reagan! I've never known a Veteran that did more in the Army, a Grunt, Tanks and Paratrooper (I loved how he described the feeling of jumping)! I thank God for the little time I had reconnecting with him, I can still hear his voice from "back-in-the-day!" Enjoy listening to the record with the sheet music I sent him, one of those trumpets is your Hubby, Dad and Grandfather! God bless you all and may you feel God's loving comfort at this sad time.
Ed Velazquez 🎶🎶🎺
A remarkable man is ‘leading the troops’ above. I was privileged to office in the administrative area in Webster City Hall and interacted with Wayne almost daily. He was a compassionate man, very proud of his family, especially in their equestrian achievements. His love for Morag and the others was evident. I also marveled at the orchid plants on display in his office, as well as the many family pictures. My sincerest condolences in your loss.
Mary Ann Headley
Dear Mo and family…I am so sorry Wayne fought hard! We know he is in a better place even though he has left a large void in a lot of hearts and lives. I honestly believe Wayne never met a stranger. From the first meeting with him and mo the connection and ease of conversation was immediate. Both of you are fast friends and it feels a much longer bond than only just over 4 years. We loved visiting you and your visits to us…wish we had done it more but Wayne and Milton are always so busy. He was not a man to sit still. My prayers are with you every day.
Wayne was my LT in the 2nd Armored division and from the moment I walked into csc HQ and met him, before I left the room I realized “this is the man that I want to be like”! For the next 2 years at Ft Hood Texas and then in Hohenfels Germany he was my mentor. I had the pleasure to catch up with him and his lovely wife a couple of times in these past few years and only wish l could have visited more. As gentle as he was, once his uniform was on he was the definition of ROCK SOLID!
I'm glad I waited to post and I had the opportunity to read all these wonderful sentiments from the City of Webster officials. I went to elementary school and junior high in Webster back in the 1960s so that town holds a special place in my heart. I met Wayne way back when Bo (Deirdre) was just a junior high kid deciding if her love of horses was truly deep or not. (Ok this was in the 90s) I had the privilege of getting to know Wayne through horses those many years ago. My favorite memory is when our stable was having a dressage schooling show and Deirdre wanted to ride some more tests. I suggested to Wayne that she grab my 5 year old mare (a future National Champion in driving and FEI level dressage horse) out of the pasture and ride her……Wayne convinced her and Bo won the class. I so enjoyed Wayne's FB posts, he always had something wonderful and interesting to say. What a great life he had and had cut short much too soon. I will miss conversing with you, Wayne. God Speed.
Wayne and I became friends when teaching together at the Infantry School in 1980. He was no-nonsense professional but had a sense of humor that made him a pleasure to work with. He was smart and dedicated. In 1981, we were both selected to attend the Israeli Army Armored Corps Commanders Course. With only a couple of weeks notice, we did the best we could to prepare. Sandi, his wife, was a great supporter and helped send CARE packages when we needed items. Sandi also cared for my two horses as well as her own…a major help to me. Wayne and I bunked in the same squad room and shared a tent in the field many times. He was a proud soldier and always represented our country in the very best manner. On weekends, he shared his Bible knowledge when we visited historic religious sites. We had many great discussions about our Christian beliefs. In the field, during our exercises, I could always count on him to do what was necessary at the exact, right time. I am glad he was my "battle buddy" during our live fire assault problems as I had complete trust in him and knew I would not be accidently shot! When we returned to Fort Benning, Wayne, Sandi and I became a traveling team to horse shows. Wayne would help Sandi and then give me a big hand loading my recalcitrant horse. He was a very talented horseman and was the right man at the right time to do the right thing. No horses were killed or injured in our loadings, a tribute to Wayne's skill (and patience). We continued to work together and published a major joint-authored article. I counted on his excellent advice and counsel to do so. When I got married, it was a small affair and I only invited a couple of close friends. Wayne was one. He was the commanding general's aide but he made time in his busy schedule to show-up. Wayne was a great friend to me and with a very affable personality, could claim many others as his friends. As the word of his passing gets out, a number of his friends have expressed shock and their sincere condolences. When I think of Wayne Sabo, I think "American Patriot". I will miss him. My sincere condolences go out to his entire family.
Wayne was a wonderful and generous man. I leased his horse R Bahama Bay, also known as Bobo, for two years. He was so supportive of us, and always tried to video each ride. When I came out of the arena, he offered good advice and positive feedback. He had an excellent eye for dressage, and help me grow my knowledge and understanding as well.
Wayne always welcomed the group showing with open arms and was proud of our accomplishments. My favorite times showing were when he and Mo would come to dinner and keep us laughing with stories and jokes.
He was Deirdre’s, and her students’, biggest fans. He loved just like he lived – big. I will always be thankful for him, and miss our times together.
Wayne was a wonderful and generous man. I leased his horse R Bahama Bay, also known as Bobo, for two years. He was so supportive of us, and always tried to video each ride. When I came out of the arena, he offered good advice and positive feedback. He had an excellent eye for dressage, and help me grow my knowledge and understanding as well.
Wayne always welcomed the group showing with open arms and was proud of our accomplishments. My favorite times showing were when he and Mo would come to dinner and keep us laughing with stories and jokes.
He was Deirdre’s, and her students’, biggest fans. He loved just like he lived – big. I will always be thankful for him, and miss our times together.
Barry and I were incredibly saddened to learn of Wayne’s passing. Barry always cherished his friendship with Wayne and I thoroughly enjoyed working with Wayne during my time on City Council-even when we butted heads. Our deepest sympathies go out to Morag, his daughter and granddaughter as well as the rest of his family and friends. He will be missed by all 🇺🇸❣️
My story of how I met Wayne was thru a chance meeting with Mo at HEB! I was standing in front of the British section, looking for biscuits, and there was Mo and we struck up a conversation. That quickly turned into a wonderful friendship! Over the years I spent some time at their house, chatting with Wayne, who was always welcoming. He was a man who was very proud of his military career, and was always eager to share stories. He had a sense of humor, and sometimes was quite effusive about the political scenarios of the day! I was invited to Thanksgiving with Wayne and Mo last November, and I will treasure that memory of him. He was a larger than life person, always with a zest for life. He will be so missed in the lives of everyone who knew him.
My sincere condolences go to all of Wayne‘s family. May he rest in peace. He was a warrior to the end.🎖️